Losing it

Y’all I need some advice or something 🤦🏼‍♀️ my recently turned 2 yo absolutely will not listen to me, no matter what I do. She knows she’s not supposed to get into certain things and she does anyway and just yells no at me if I tell her to stop or get out, she’ll go right back to where she was if I pull her out/away from anything. She hits, punches, kicks, and throws herself on the ground if she gets her butt busted.

She’s always been like this with me but it’s just progressively getting worse and worse and recently she’s begun not listening to her dad as well, whom she’s always listened to. I also feel like it doesn’t help me that he works 2nd shift and around 6 is her worst time. I feel like I’m losing my crap and I wanna pull my hair out sometimes. I’m really at loss so any advice or anything you can offer is much appreciated 😂

Edited to add: not sure if it matters but I am 33 weeks pregnant.