Wasted Identity

Em

Emme

Sometimes I wish I was straight and not ace (maybe aro???). I feel like what I don’t experience isn’t natural and I should be feeling something or doing something that I’m not. How is it that I can be so acephobic to myself???

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Society has taught us all that certain things are excepted, "normal" and even required. This does not mean that society is right. If you want to have a sexual relationship go for it, if you don't that's okay. You have to do what makes you feel comfortable. It might take you a bit to figure out exactly what that means for you. It might even take you a while after that to be comfortable living that way and excepting yourself. Don't let be to hard on yourself there is no one like you, trying to change your self would be like trying to change a work of art. You are perfect the way you are even if you don't believe it right now.

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The reason is that society and media treat people as though they are incomplete unless they are in a romantic relationship. How many times have you seen all the characters in a book get paired up at the last minute? Then there’s shipping culture? Basically, because we are atypical, we are sometimes treated as defective, which is not the case. Best wishes