Advice for moms who lost their baby/babies?

Question

*Note: This is NOT a post where I’m asking for advice to give an angel momma, but rather for mommas who are suffering through a loss to look to for advice*
What is the most important piece of advice you would have to give a mom who has lost a baby/babies? Whether it be through still birth, miscarriage, SIDs, etc.

Answer

NEVER SAY:
It was God’s plan
Everything happens for a reason. 
There must have been something wrong with the baby. 
You can get pregnant again. 
At least you know you can get pregnant. 
At least it was early. 
I know how you feel. 
You need to move on.

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NO ADVICE. 
Say you’re sorry. 
Use the baby’s name. 
Ask about the baby. 
Be available to listen, even if she has nothing to say. 
Realize her grief is real and unique to her. 
Never judge her loss, no matter how early or late it was.

Answer

Ask them if they want to discuss it before discussing it. Don't assume they want to talk about it, not everyone does.

Answer

All you can do is hear them be there for them because the only thing that will help is time to help heal there’s no advice even I who lived a loss of a child can’t say I have advice because everyone grieves differently

Advice for moms who lost their baby/babies?

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