So I’m having a baby shower in 2 weeks and this is the 2nd time I mentioned that I would prefer no kids and no extra guest. Bring the kids of course if you don’t have a sitter And I prefer no extra guest because I’m kinda a shy person and I want this time to spend with the special people I invited....and I figured it was kinda common sense don’t bring a lot of extra people to an event. but there was only 3 out of like 50 people who seemed to have a issue with it. And those 3 people 2 are family members and 1 is a friend. They all have their kids fathers to be able to watch them so I don’t see the problem. And also they the main ones who let the kids do whatever and bring there friend(s)..

Now these 3 people can’t go anywhere without the boyfriends up their ass. Like there will be no men at my shower... and it just annoys me cause I don’t understand why you can’t leave your kids alone with the father? What’s the point of having them then.... 😑😑😑😑

Anyways the place I’m having my shower , there is no park. My own child will not be attending. I said no kids because every time I have an event (like my gender reveal) they was more kids then adults, it felt like a birthday party and the people didn’t watch their kids and they was basically destroying the place. I feel like they would get bored then the parents would either leave early or they will just let the kids stay there and do what they want....either way no one would have a good time.... especially me cause every event I throw I’m always having to deal with peoples kids.

I said all of this the nicest way I can but they are making me feel like the bad guy. There is a limit of how many people can be in the building anyways and if things get damaged then we can’t get our deposit back.

Sorry it’s so long. Am I being extra and mean or am I making sense and they just wanna be complicated.

The one friend who had a issue, after explaining myself to her she’s understandable but she will have to bring one extra guest due to that is her ride so I can deal with that.

Ugh. Anyone else have shower drama. Feel free to vent.