Literally just found out I’m pregnant with #4. I want to be excited! I definitely wanted one more baby.. but I’m stressed to the max! My husband is going to be pissed because we’re definitely not ready yet (we were trying to prevent). He wasn’t even sure if he wanted one more or not! Plus, I just started a new job in December. I don’t have insurance yet and when the baby is due, I won’t yet qualify for short term disability or fmla. Plus my husband is currently not working (stay at home dad but looking for a job). We’re super tight with my income as it is and now we’re going to add another baby. I’m so scared to tell him. Technically af isn’t due for another 2 days but my test was positive within seconds. I’m going to have to figure out how to approach this with him soon. He’ll eventually know if I don’t get af.