I’ve posted on here about my mom and family before but it’s been about a month and there’s more to add on to it.

Quick story: my mom is bipolar, her meds don’t work, she has a break down basically every day or at the very least starts an argument. She was hospitalized thanksgiving week for being suicidal. As my pregnancy went on she kept getting worse. At first she was okay, then every time I saw her towards the end she started an argument with someone and 9/10 ended up crying or screaming at somebody. 12/27 she came to get me for an appt (my car was totaled and I didn’t have a new one yet) she threatened to call CPS on me because my dog has pooped 1ft away from his puppy pad and me being 9 months pregnant left all that duty to my husband and he was at work. She had a complete break down threatening CPS and saying I can’t raise a child. Told her to leave, she purposely let my dog out and then caused me to fall on rocks/pavement. I went to the ER and ended up being induced the next day after all night monitoring for a placenta abruption. She left a voicemail crying saying she didn’t threaten CPS and didn’t mean it. I let her come the next day and she started an argument with my husband when she saw a text saying he didn’t want her there. Then they (my parents) brought dinner a week later and started an argument again. So we decided to cut off physical contact because it stressed me out so much and I don’t want that around my son. I grew up with her unstable ass I don’t want him to either. My grandparents who hadn’t met him yet because they are sick came to visit about a week after I saw my parents last and they threw a fit saying we had no reason to keep my son from them when other people could see him. Eventually I told my step dad why I didn’t want them around and my mom blew up my phone for 2 days saying I owe them because they threw my baby shower and bought me a wedding gift and spent their money as well as mine to get me a car. (I had them sell my old one and they sold it for less than I asked. Then spent their money as well as mine on a new one without asking me if it wa sokay and not even telling me until after)

When I cut them off I told them to sell the car and give me my money back. I told them my husband can pick it up because I will not be seeing them in person. They told me he isn’t allowed to pick up my money and it has to be me. I said we could sue and they said they’d counter sue for the baby shower, wedding gift and car expenses. I told them to forget it and keep my money and I blocked them on everything after they said several insulting things. The next day guess who shows up at my door. CPS. They told us they got a report saying we “physically neglect” our son. I told them all about how my mom is seriously unstable and that I will file a restraining order if they contact me or do anything else to harass me (I even told my parents this) and OF COURSE were in the middle of moving so the bedroom had a bunch of clothes on the floor in sorting piles. CPS said to just clean that and they’d come the next day, we did and she said thanks looks great and we haven’t heard anything since so I’m guessing we’re cleared. (Been about a week) my husband texts my mom saying she shouldn’t be teaching because she’s racist. She cheated on my step dad with an inmate in prison through sexting letters with a known murderer and leader of the KKK in prison and she knew this-she stands up for his racismMy husband is black and she reports it to DCF saying it’s all a lie and we’re threatening her and puts the screenshots in our file.

And today my parents got an entirely new number to text us on. Saying they still had my money. I told them there is no way I will see them to get it and if they actually want to give us MY money they can PayPal it. They didn’t say anything except to give them baby blankets they gave us back. And that I could give them to my grandparents and they. Like give them to my parents that way. They even said the CPS call had “nothing to do with me cutting them off” even though it was the very next day. They said my mom is a “mandatory reporter” since she’s a teacher. But I have a voicemail from the day after she threatened to call CPS saying she didn’t mean it. Then said “the crazy made up stuff you told CPS did not help your case” but I have screenshots, voicemails and witnesses either at or right after each event. Including my fall. But when asked about it she starts crying saying she’d never hurt me and didn’t even know I was hurt. Yeah being 9 months pregnant and falling on pavement stomach first and crying sure isn’t hurt. I have pictures of my scraped knee and hand but I didn’t have any marks on my stomach but I did tell the medical staff I fell, but I didn’t tell them my mom caused it. I did tell my friend who took me to the ER and my husband right after it though. I told them it’s okay, they have my moms psycho events in the file too and there’s a reason I blocked them. I told them if they contacted me or Jesse again we will get the restraining order ( we didn’t before because they hadn’t tried contacting us again) and then I blocked the new number and changed my number completely. Thank god we move on the 15th so they can’t show up where we live.

It’s just stressful dealing with my families bullshit with a one month old and moving at the same time. Yes I told CPS about the fall and the abruption and her arguing with my husband IN THE HOSPITAL. So hopefully they actually believe me instead of my parents who are the expert at playing victim and crying for sympathy and completely lying about everything since she’s done it all her life. Even my extended family isn’t surprised she did this