I never liked the idea of gender reveal parties. I just personally don't get the purpose of them. I didn't have one for my son and I wasn't planning on having one for my second. I had made it very clear that I didn't want one. Well now I'm being forced to wait to find out what I'm having, something I've been so anxious about since the beginning and I'm telling my mother that I don't want a reveal, I just want to know what I'm having. She's not listening to me and is being difficult and is still persisting I have one. She keeps pushing the date for the reveal back and back and I'm getting agitated because I just want to fucking know. It's really taking all the joy away from me honestly. I don't know why mom's think big special moments are there's when it's not about them at all. I wish they'd understand that.