Hi girls

I would really love and appreciate your feedback on what I should do in this situation cause I can’t deal with it anymore 😭

So basically I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last 5 years. We had our ups and downs and during arguments things were said but after a while we would end up in love again - which i get it, it’s totally fine in relationships right?

So this year my boyfriend had to go to hospital cause he was suffering from very serious pain in his stomach and long story short, he ended up staying for a week which I went next to him everyday till the visiting hours were closed.

Anyway last weekend he had to go again but only for treatment so the doctors decided to keep him for observation for just 3 days.

The first day I couldn’t go cause they gave him his room at around 8pm and visiting hours closes by 8pm, then the next day I had to go to work in which i tried to change shifts but since that i work in a shop with only 2 other stuff it was impossible and ended up not going as well.

The third day i planned to go but i suffer from very intense headaches sometimes,in which my doctor told me it could be cluster headache. So as soon as i was going to hospital my head started pounding and pounding really bad till I couldn’t even move my head or open my eyes so ended up not going as well.

He knows about the headaches and since that I didn’t go, ALL of his family blocked me on every platform of social media and he wanted to end things. He said i was disrespectful and I should have called him not messaged him.

The question that I’m asking is, does anyone here have in laws that hates you? And you still continued with your relationship? Should I run or stay and take all the blame?

The same in laws were always showing signs that they hate me but it all began TWO years ago when I got a summer job working as a salesgirl(which only lasted 4months) - is it something bad to get a job?

Honestly i have been questioning everything that I do in my life because of them.

I would realllyyy love and appreciate if i get some feedback and maybe some similar experience cause l can’t take it anymore and I don’t have friends to talk to because of him.