LH Surge and TTC Girl

Tamara

Please, no judgment on gender preference. We have many reasons for trying for a girl.

Calendar is below. We bd on the 2, 3 & 4 (and prior to that too). 2nd was the start of my fertile window. We couldn't bd last night (and kicking myself for it!) because I was in the hospital.

It's my first time taking OPKs and I just got a positive (negative yesterday afternoon, but I just had a lot of water...so inaccurate?). Glow says ovulation is tomorrow, so it's either day 1 or day 2 of my LH surge. I have 2 kids, and in the past I've never done OPKs and just bd everyday until ovulation (and twice the day before), and gotten pregnant.

My question: if we bd today, do we still have a good chance for a girl? Or is it too close to ovulation? Should we not and hope that bd on the 2nd-4th was good enough (even if I ovulate on the 7th)? Seems too far away to me and I worry we will miss this month. I really wish we could've last night...

Thank you for your help!!