Can’t Have Boy Friends. Normal?

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and he has my password to my social media. He says I can’t have any friends that are guys because he’s afraid in the end they have wrong intentions. Is it normally for girls to not be able to have other guy friends?

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Lol you need a new boyfriend

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No that isn’t normal and sounds super controlling! Red flag.

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My boyfriend has really close friends that are girls and I have close friends that are boys. Gender shouldn’t matter. Trust is the only thing that matters!

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He sounds horribly insecure and controlling

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NO not normal! Your boyfriend has serious self esteem issues that he needs to deal with before getting into a relationship.

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Red flag!! Guys and girls can be friends. He has your passwords so he probably goes through your stuff which, in itself, shows he isn't trusting. You can be friends with anyone you want and if that means you're friends with a guy, then you're friends with a guy. If he can't trust you to have friends it's probably not gonna end well.

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Ruuuuuuun!!

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He’s way too controlling. U can be friends w whoever u want. Get a bf who trusts u.

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No that's not ok or normal. But I think you know this really or you wouldn't be asking. Sorry hun but at best he sounds immature/insecure, at worst controlling and manipulative. I would start by having a chat with him, letting him know you care about him but are not willing to give up half your friends for him. If that doesn't go well i would have a good think about your future together xx

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My husband allows me guy friends. But I never hang out alone with them and my husband has access to every conversation I have with them and what not. He also knows that if he ever feels threatened or worried about a friendship, I’d drop them without question (though he’s never felt worried about anything). It sounds like your man has trust issues. Have you ever tried to talk to him about this?

Can’t Have Boy Friends. Normal?

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