How did you as a mother, deal with your boyfriend/father of your babies when he doesn’t want a baby because they take a lot of time that he doesn’t want to give up. My bf has a lot of after work activities. He works 9-5 then after work he has bowling then plays soccer with his friends. I’m pregnant and scared to tell him because feel like I’ll take his activities away. How did you make him see the light or how can I make him see the light that having a baby shouldn’t be a burden to things he wants to do? Is it truly a burden ?

I don’t have many activities like he does. I work and hit the gym but that’s it. I don’t feel like keeping myself immensely busy is healthy for me. Any appropriate helpful tips appreciated ☺️