So I’ve know my coworker was starting the ttc journey a few months ago, and for the last couple days I’ve had a feeling and well she let the cat out of the bag and told me she was pregnant 7 weeks. She is planning on holding out til 12 weeks to tell everyone else, but she felt bad for me knowing I’ve been ttc for 2+ years. I was elated for her, and never upset but as I drove home I realized that when she does announce I’m going to have deal with everyone’s pity on me and that literally breaks me. I guess I wondering how to deal with my co workers and at the same time start building my callus for the the day.