So I’m fat. Like really fat lol I’m not one to sugarcoat that word it is what it is but anyway... I’m normally a pretty loud and bubbly person; with my friends. When it comes to guys I lack confidence I just assume no men like me and don’t ever try to flirt. How do I meet guys? Tinder just isn’t working I want to meet someone “organically” I guess? But I live in a super small town so other than the bar once in a while I don’t meet guys lol and how do I get a guy to approach me rather than me having to initiate it?