My husband and I have been married for nearly 4 years but we didn't last long, once I lived with him he got really nasty and emotionally abused me. Im not some weak girl I've been through this before with someone else so I handled it alot better than most people would but everyone has a breaking point and if he wasn't going to change when I was pregnant then he never will.

How years down the line and him never seeing his kid in the flesh he deliberately tries to find out where I live, giving different reasons and it puts me on edge. He creeps out of the woodworks every now and again

Hes never paid child support and when it's brought up into conversation he always says he did offer but I "refused" which is a lie. Instead of using the app we usually used to transfer money he brought up this new one which.... You guessed it..... Requires an address🙄

He doesnt care about me and doesn't show much interest in our kid he just again tried to ask for an address to send our kid birthday presents which I knew was all just for show. He never asks how our kid is doing or anything but idk it's a really complicated situation.

And for those who may jump to the comments and make out im a horrible mother or make out he is trying his best... He isn't. I know him and he isn't trying anything.

Plus, he said and did really bad things to me. He always gets annoyed and wishes death on me and then the next minute seemed okay and it's just messed with my head and this was even before I was pregnant too