What would you do ? If you were on your death bed would you be alright with your husband having a girlfriend?

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This is a clip from THE VIEW about Dan Gasby having a public relationship with another woman while still married to his wife B.Smith. He still takes care of his wife and she accepts his girlfriend Alex Lerner with open arms for her husband.

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Both of my husband's parents got Alzheimer's / dementia my mother-in-law got Alzheimer's first And in a months she didn't even know who anybody was not even her own husband .and because my father-in-law was too proud to ask for help and nearly killed on being a caretaker for her!  You cannot judge somebody until  you're in their shoes! I know what this disease does first hand and is extremely hard! I mean he could have put her into a home and never seen her!

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Nope. I don’t care if they are on their death bed or if they have dementia or if they are in a vegetative state. Until death do us part, those were my vows. Not until sickness happens and it’s inconvenient for me 🙄

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If your spouse is on their death bed and you're remotely concerned with starting a relationship with someone else, you're fucking pathetic.

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No. How fucked up

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No sheesh wait till I’m gone at least 🙄

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So I know the instinct is that this is totally crazy, and I'm not sure many would actually be able to do it, but in other ways in seems brilliant.
Like, if you approach it like polyamory, then it's something you and your partner did together, a relationship you both had (in different ways) with a third person. Then it's less like you're being replaced, and more like there's another person there you can trust to support the person you loved. Second, you get to have a relationship with the girlfriend, and when you're gone, she will have known you, and get to grieve you, instead of being in your shadow. ANd for the husband, the person you're in a relationship with will share the memory of the love you had, will have been a witness to it, and will understand. And then you won't feel like you're replacing her, either.

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Helll No. I would haunt his ass

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Probably not.
But if it works for them, good for them 🤷🏻‍♀️

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No chance. How can anyone move on THAT quick.

What would you do ? If you were on your death bed would you be alright with your husband having a girlfriend?

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