Next pregnancy people won’t know...

I’m so tired of hearing “you’ll see how bad it hurts I guess that’s the consequence of having sex” and I’m like uh... I’ve been trying for YEARS finally 8 weeks pregnant and everyone is acting like no other woman has given birth. Yeah I’m sick and I know people try to help by saying do this do that I know what to do I’ve read so many things about morning sickness. Maybe I’m just hormonal I don’t know! JUST SO ANNOYED WITH EVERYONE?? Anyone else with me??