Orgasms

So I’ve had sex with 13 guys since I’ve lost my virginity 6years ago, and none of them have made me orgasm through sex or head, the guy I date now had finally made me orgasm through head and has been doing good at it and gets better everytime, my question is...how do you orgasm through sex because it seems like I can only orgasm if my clit is penetrated, so what am I doing wrong?