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My husband and I have had a rough week over him hiding money me think his cheating him reassuring me he is not etc. tonight he is an hour away (where he works) in the city waiting out front the young office girls house for 45 minutes while she gets ready and then apparently picking up someone else ( a male) then heading to have beers together.. how would this make you feel ????? P.s we are still not where we want to be in terms of moving on from the fight

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i wouldn't be happy I'd want whatever it is from the fight sorted out. Not one off enjoying themselves while the other sits there pondering. I'd lock the doors make him realise that he can't just walk in and out when  the going gets tough.

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I honestly wouldn’t be super comfortable if I was you in this position, I would reverse the situation and ask him how he would feel  ‘ if that was you waiting at the front of a young male coworkers house, whilst he gets ready and then going to pick up another (Male/Female) and then going to have some beers at the pub’ 
Ask him how he would feel ?? Majority of the time the other partner wouldn’t be happy about it and possibly refuse to let you do it! 
Talk about this, otherwise I think this will eat at you and continue to harm your relationship

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I think you are looking for a reason to say his cheating, 
At Least he told you where he is, his waiting in his car, 
His also having other company, 
I don't see a issue as he made you aware, I personally think you need to maybe work through your own insecurities,

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Hiding money is a very big no, no in my eyes. It is this way out of experience with my HUSBAND! Yes, husband. Not my ex. Not my soon to be ex. We worked through it. It took time. It’s still a conscious decision he has to make every pay check! We are in therapy to learn to communicate bc his reasons for hiding money were not at all for the reasons I was assuming. Some of these women are so quick to jump to divorce. Like marriage is supposed to be easy going 24/7. Marriage is meshing your life with someone else’s constantly. That’s not easy! Now as for him going out... I’d be upset but like you said.. he had a rough week too. He needed some time with friends. The female friend is what’s getting you but at the end of the day, this is YOUR husband. We don’t know him. You do. He did tell you where he was and what his plan was. It’s up to you if you trust it. Take a night to yourself and be positive about your alone time. When he gets home (which I don’t recommend) or the next day, just chat if you feel the need to. I’m sorry he was/is hiding money. It’s not fair, you don’t have to be submissive to it, and you have every right to now where all the income is. Good luck, lovey.

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I would have filed for divorce the moment I found out he was hiding our money from me. Then I wouldn't have to bother with all this mess.
Him hiding money is all you need to know about his true colors. I wouldn't waste my time to force a relationship with someone who wasn't as committed as I am. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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