Anal???

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My BF wants to try it. He constantly asks me to try and when i finally said ok I couldn't do it. We had lube.. He even tried to stick his finger inside but I still couldn't do it. It may sound nasty.. But whenever he sticks his finger inside. It feels like I have to poo? But I know I don't have too? Idk it just feels weird. Any advice?

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It felt like that forever, until, I'm sorry I'm going to say it, he started licking my asshole. It feels disgustingly amazing. I hate that I love it so much. But it helps me relax. I can't handle a finger either. But after he goes down there he puts just the tip in, and I control the motion and depth, which has helped greatly! He is very well endowed, and it has a bend in it, so at this point I've only been able to get about half in, but it's enjoyable for both of us now. You HAVE to loosen up first or it won't go anywhere and it will just hurt. Being in control is really key, because instead of being nervous that he was going to go deeper and it was going to hurt, I get him in as deep as I can and only try to go farther if and when I feel like I can.  Good luck! I was in the same boat as you.

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It's totally normal to feel like you have to poo. I like the make sure I don't have to beforehand that way when I do get that feeling, I know it's completely normal and if you just relax(scary I know), it feels 150x's better. I like to explain to women that some of the shits we take are bigger than a dick. It just feels bigger because we are so tense! Just try your best to relax your entire body and if it helps, get a line w a slight numbing agent!

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The key is to relax! It'll hurt a lot and feel kind of weird unless you relax. But really, it sounds like he's pressuring you into it, don't do anything you're not interested in

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When its first put in I literally need him to be completely still for like 5 minutes or I'll flip shit but after that it's pretty great

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I love anal!!!! Give it time and you'll love it!!! It is amazing!!!   It takes time. I prefer a dildo that he can wear a cock ring and so I ride his dick while the dildo is in my ass at the same time. But he will finger me for a while to losen up my ass.

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My husband and I both decided at the very beginning anal wasn't for us. Now however, it's a completely different story. Yes I had tried it before but I hated it and it hurt and I wanted to punch the guy in the dick lol. But we started out using a butt plug for a little while. He would tell me when to wear it or to have it in when he got home. I would wear it around the house or during sex just to get a feel for something being there. Just so it wasn't so foreign. Then the first few times we tried anal it did still hurt and like you said I felt like I needed to go to the bathroom. I've recently finally lost that feeling and it's actually something we both really really enjoy and it's become part of our sex almost every time. My husband is very patient and is always asking me if I'm okay for if I'm hurting. Which makes it more intimate to me in a sense. I've found the positions that are easiest for me are me on top and standing with something I can brace myself against. Like the bathroom counter bc it's higher up or if he has me against the back of the couch. Doggy is a big no for me with anal because for some reason it just doesn't work lol we haven't tried missionary yet. But def take your time with it. Don't rush into puttin it in your ass. Play around with things and get used to the feeling. That helped me a tremendous amount!

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don't use fingers. it's so gross feeling. just get the head of his penis in and go from there. the fingers is such an awfully weird feeling.

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