Why do people only offer to help with the new baby not the 2.5 year old who actually needs entertained? I don't need help with the baby especially since I am EBF I need help with my ferral toddler who is going crazy from being in the house all the time. Yes I miss doing things with him, but I am still mostly focused on him since the baby doesn't need much. If people really wanted to help they would offer to do something with my toddler and possibly make dinner so I can enjoy my newborn daughters cuddles like I got to enjoy my sons without interruption.