Disagree on everything

My spouse and I love each other and share children but we have different views on a lot. It creates power struggles and problems in our marriage. I’m no doormat. I have a mind of my own and I think for myself and sure as hell don’t have a problem voicing my own opinion however during conflict my husband seems to boil down to “a woman should let her man have the final word”. Well I’m all for tradition but if I don’t agree then I don’t agree and I won’t budge. Is this me being non submissive and stubborn or holding my ground? I can’t help how I am and the only problem there seems to be is his problem with me. I give rational logical and reasonable points as opposed to his beliefs but on his mind he feels the same towards me. Feeling conflicted and need non biased opinions TIA