So one day my mom was joking about sharing a room with me , I was like um no , and she was like why , and I was like I want my privacy ,and she was like , no you want to masterbate ( jokingly ) , I was silent for two seconds and she went , omg Lillian you masterbate , and I was like ya mom , I’m 14 , and she was like omg that’s two young , I was like mom I’m 14 it’s normal and she goes no Lillian it’s not normal, and then she said , you better be washing your hands afterwards , and I was like i am. and that was the end of it , we haven’t really talked about it sense , but we still do have a very open relationship where sex is almost a daily topic and we are just really chill about that kind of think , she used to work for pure romance (a sex toy company) so she has a ton of sex toys that she uses , and her display ones are out in the garage, I think there is like 50 sex toys in my house rn and like half are actually used , the rest are just old displays , anyway , I have been dying for a vibrator , nothing fancy just a plain simple little vibrator , I want to ask her but I’m a little scared , how should I bring up the topic , how should I explain things to her