19 partners no orgasm ?!

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I'm 25 and I've been with multiply people... 19-21 too be exact.. Well all my girl friends talk about how they have orgasms and I have never had one!? Is it me?! I can give myself one with a clitoral stimulator but that's it! No orgasms durning sex and I'm getting so frustrated! Help!? Also now I have a steady bf and he is great at sex and it feels amazing but still no big O :(

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Although after you brought this up for me I of course googled it again because I just seriously want to experience a vaginal orgasm, especially with my SO! But this is the first article I clicked on! And I'm just gonna go with this article rather than the others that said I can't.

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It's an aweful feeling, I used to think there was something wrong with me.  It turns out, I was just in my head too much... I'd be having sex and the whole time I was worrying about not having an orgasm.  It was even worse afterwards, when I would feel guilty because my partner would feel like it was his fault for "not doing a good job".  It can drive a girl mad.  I finally had an orgasm during sex when I stopped worrying so much, and when I let myself enjoy sex without thinking.  I think it also matters that you have sex with a partner that's willing to spend the time to turn you on in all the right ways, and it does take communication.  You have to tell him what works for you and what doesn't.  Good luck! But know that there's absolutely nothing wrong with you!

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Just let your SO know to play with your clit and let him know if you want it faster/harder or whatever is all up to you.  :)

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I have the same issue. I've had sex with 5 guys and I've never once had an orgasm.

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I have been with 11 men and my SO for over 2 years and have never gotten off by having sex. Only stimulation to my clit, so I looked it up and I've read on many many different articles that basically half of the women's population can't get off vaginally. So I've just left it with that. I'm that half that can't get off vaginally. Lol

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Do you play with your clit during sex? That's what does it for me.

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Try the triphora by Trojan it's amazing and it's the only thing to give me an orgasim other than my husband so try it out it has three (tri) interchangeable heads I find the triple bump one perfect

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Definitely Ty a little foreplay before starting sex. Have your guy get you on the brink of an orgasm using clitoral stimulation then have vaginal sex. It totally helps! I never used to orgasm but now I do everytime. And it's soooo much better when someone else does it for you ;) hope this helps!

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Ask your partner to try multi tasking, give a demo if needed  ;) I only have clitoral orgasims, and have friends who are the same , totally normal! Just have to be comfortable enough with yourself and your partner to let it happen :)

19 partners no orgasm ?!

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