Rant!! Help..🤬😭😭

Okay so I’m 37 weeks pregnant with a precious baby boy. Father isn’t involved and is a pothead with no life ahead of him and has another baby on the way due just 2 months after my baby. 🙃 His mom is a pill popper & lets her son (my baby daddy) just smoke pot right there in front of his little siblings and nephew. NOT an environment I want my baby to be around. Period. But his mom would message me every now and then to check up and see how me and the baby were doing which I appreciated. I have been so nice to her & planned on letting her visit the baby when she wanted and be in his life. Well tonight she messaged me. She asked how everything was going and I said that everything was going good. Then she just kind of flipped a switch and was going on saying I don’t talk much and that if I’m not going to let her see the baby that I need to let her know because she will need to make “arrangements” to see baby boy. She told me to let her know when the baby is born and to send her a picture as soon as he’s born... But I’m not letting anyone take pictures. And I’m not sending anyone pictures until I announce his birth. I told her I wasn’t allowing visitors at the hospital because the flu is going around really bad. She said, “It’s not like I’m asking to be in the delivery room.” I told her that once I’m home, feeling better, & have him settled, she can come and visit him. But she wanted to say, “That might be a month later. Don’t wait until he’s 1 before I get to see him.” I don’t know what to do. I’m so overwhelmed. 😭 Am I in the wrong??