So in late August I was going through some stuff, and like the white girl I am.. I dyed my hair. It was temp hair dye, supposed to turn out dark brown and... Nahhhh. Straight black.

It. Will. Not. Come. Out.

I don't want to dye it black again because I'm now 33 weeks pregnant and want something fun and cute for maternity pictures and for when she is born. I'm also the mother to a 2.5 year old.

I have stupid curly hair as well, and have no damn clue what to do with it.

I've tried cleansing shampoos, white vinegar, head and shoulders, baking soda, and all the things I've read online. NOTHING WORKS.

I'm fairly sure I'm going to have to strip it at this point and that's just hard on my hair and I don't know what color to dye it over top once that's done.

My roots have grown out and I wear a (non-elastic) headband to cover them, which means my fucking hair has severed off in parts and the top layer is shorter in some spots.

I'm gonna post some horribly unflattering pictures.

Please give me ideas 😟😤

I'm already big as a whale from pregnancy and my self esteem is shot.