Just told BFs parents

They were shocked, upset and disappointed. His mother couldn't even look at me. He's 30 I'm 22. They said they were embarrassed because we aren't married. His father said to get an abortion. There was a lot of shouting between my boyfriend and his father. His mother is upset because my due date is so close to her daughters wedding, she's worried it'll take away from her big day....I wanted to cry. My bf and I have been talking about getting married. Obviously they're old fashioned but I almost felt like apologizing to them. Im pretty hurt and upset. After all was said and done his father (who is Italian and has a very thick accent) said congratulations, welcome to the family....and gave me a brief hug. I couldn't tell if he was being sarcastic or not. I'm so exhausted and my anxiety is building and my head is spinning. I hope his parents won't hate me forever, they've only met me a handful of times. I'm so surpriseD at their reaction, so is my boyfriend. (I also have a 3yr old son from a previous relationship, so I believe they were judging me pretty hard) So How did everyone else's parents react? Were they shocked, angry, happy?