Abusive-ish

My husband is a good man. He’s a great step dad. He’s loving. He has a short fuse, never gets violent, usually just takes a drive or goes outside to calm down.

But ever since our miscarriage last month, he’s started to show abusive traits. He’s been yelling, gaslighting, hangs up on me, slamming doors. I’m sure the miscarriage is the trigger that started all of this, he never really coped with it, just moved on. But I don’t know how to help him. He’s not abusive by any means, he’s hurt and his anger is coming out.

I’m not just going to leave him(unless I started worrying about violence), I’m not stupid or in denial, I know his behavior isn’t ok, but I also know it’s not him and he’s really hurting.