I’m SO confused about what my “boyfriend” and I are.....

So there’s this guy that tells everyone (including his whole family) that I’m his girlfriend and I tell everyone he’s my boyfriend, but he hasn’t even made it official. He tells me that he loves me every night before I fall asleep (I’ve been staying with him for the past 2 weeks) and I told him I feel like we are just sex buddies and he told me that he doesn’t want to have sex if I feel that way bc “he loves me and doesn’t want for me to think that way”. When I brought up the fact that I wanted to date him he said “okay then let’s date” and I said “are you ready for that?” And he said “I wanted to wait a little longer, but if this is what will make you happy then let’s do it” so I told him to ask me when he’s ready (because I don’t want to get into anything if both of us aren’t ready. what do I say to him? How am I supposed to feel? What do I do about it??