Getting married advice

So I’m getting married on February 28th, at our new house (we close on February 18). Both of our families are kinda distant from us at the moment, between my crazy aunt and his mom and some family we didn’t want to invite anyone really expect my mom, grandma and what would have been our maid of honor and best man. Would you still wear a wedding dress or what would you do? He’s in the Army, and I’m sure he would wear his uniform but I’m trying to think about what would be nice to do since we want to have a wedding but don’t want to deal with the drama of his and my family. What would y’all do?