So on on Thursday I was told by my boyfriend that we wouldn’t be doing anything on Valentine’s Day because he doesn’t have time... I tried to get over it but it just really bugged me so I called him on the next day to explain that I was really upset that we weren’t doing anything and he went off on me and told me that I wasn’t respecting his busy schedule and that I was being to needy and basically said fuck you and I ended up hanging up on him... he called my mom and was like I don’t know what to do, she’s being so emotional, and she’s not understanding that I have a busy schedule and blah blah blah and my mom was like I can’t tell you what to do because it’s not my relationship so you have to figure that out between you two. Mind you I haven’t seen him in like almost a month! We’ve had no intimacy time or even just time in general because he says he’s always so busy! I get that he just got promoted to full time at his job and goes to school but he goes to school twice a week and gets off of work at 4:30 pm Monday through Thursday so there HAS to be some time he can give me if he wanted to right? Also since getting this job he has told me that our relationship is not his number one priority and that was Christmas time! Well anyways he calls me back after talking to my mom and here I am trying to make compromises saying I’m okay seeing him for just 30 minutes just to get a kiss and a hug and say I love you and he straight just was like we need a break.... I can’t give you what you want right now and our relationship is toxic but I don’t want to break up with you we just need a month break! So here I am thinking well if you already think our relationship is toxic then why even stay with me just break up with me because it seems like he already made up his mind... and why a month? Like what is a month going to do? Is it his cop out way of saying he’s over and just wants his cake and eat it too like string me along or does he really need time? I just think if he really wanted to make time for us then he would try but it just seems like I was the only one trying to compromise! Should I assume I’m single at this point or wait that month and see? He hasn’t talked to me since so I’m so confused... HELP!