Did having a baby make your life better?

Question

Did it live up to the hype ?
Is it even worth ruining your body for ?
Don’t you regret it? 
Do less guys like you because of it?

Answer

If you’re asking these questions you need to be on birth control and preventing pregnancy. If you’re ready  to be a mother you don’t ask these kinds of questions. This sounds like questions a teenager with baby fever asks. “Did it live up to the hype?” What kind of question is that? No it’s not always glamorous. It’s not mommy and me matching outfits and Instagram posts everyday with full glam makeup. Sometimes you go days without a shower. 
But you don’t need to be in this group if these are your questions. Because this is not trying not preventing, which means a high chance of getting pregnant. And it doesn’t sound like you are anywhere near ready to be a mother.

Answer

1) No absolutely not. Sometimes you go days without makeup, or showering, hell maybe even days without brushing your hair.
2) Ruin my body? Having a child didnt ruin my body in my opinion. Yes i weigh more now, yes i have stretch marks. But i feel healthy now. My stretch marks are natural tattoos of what my body went through to grow/create a baby.
3)No. I absolutely dont regret it. I tried to get pregnant with my son. Yes I was 21 when i got pregnant. But i knew what i wanted and so did my husband. Neither of us regret it. My son is my whole world.
4) What kind of question is that? If your not preventing pregnancy you should be doing it with someone you plan on staying with. And if your in a relationship why does it matter if other men like your body? My husband loves my body, i dont give two shits if any other men like it or not. Thats not what im worried about now days. Im worried about my son. There are bigger things in life.

Answer

Absolutely a blessing.  My husband finds me more attractive and wanted another baby right away! Babies are such a blessing.  c section scar is worth it!! I've never regretted having my children!

Answer

Oh honey, I’d suggest getting on birth control if those are your concerns. My son is a blessing. Being a parent is the greatest love I’ve ever known, but it isn’t all cupcakes and rainbows. It’s work, it’s hard, it’s messy; but it’s still worth it. And my body is nowhere near ruined. Changed? Yes. But ruined? No! This body “built” a whole human, carried that human, pushed him out, and nurtured him. 
Idgaf how many guys like me. My goal in life has never been to get likes from guys so 🙄🤷🏾‍♀️

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