Okay so my bf and I have been together for like 4 months now and I completely forgot how his week is Valentine’s Day and I call him to say goodnight and he just says. Btw we’re hanging out on Thursday and I said why and he just said because he realised smt. Like he didn’t want to say it out loud which I later squeezed out of him. And I said oh what are we doing then. Bcim assuming maybe the planned something and he just said i dont know what do you wanna do I’m fine with just lunch. I dont know why but that made me feel very i dont know the word. Unspecial? Or like I’m not worth him trying. Maybe I sound super high maintenance but i dont know I just thought maybe we could do something more. And he said well I thought you didn’t like romantic stuff and yeah I don’t necessarily like it but that doesn’t mean on Valentine’s Day I just want a lunch? Am I being too high maintenance? I dont know I’ve just learnt not to expect any kind of surprises with him I guys he’s a guy right so he wouldn’t make some grand gesture... or even a small gesture :/ at least he wants to spend part of the day with me right