If you look for it, you'll find it?

Guys, I haven't been TTC for long, but I haven't been making efforts to prevent it either. For the last seven months I've done nothing in the way of protection or prevention.

This month is the first time actively TTC. We did it all according to the calendar and mucus and so on... Now it's about 6 DPO and I'm seeing symptoms that look promising.

I don't want to get my hopes up at all. I feel like this is a case of, if you're looking for it, you'll find it. As in: you see it even if it isn't there because you see what you want to see. Can you guys help me calm down? Hoping for my BFP ASAP