Milk coming in?!👏🏻

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Is breast and nipple pain a sign that my milk is coming in? Nipples have been a little tender the past couple days and this morning my breasts are sooo sore. Massaging helps a little but I’m they feel like a sore muscle after a workout lol I’m not actively leaking but there are times that I check and notice a teeny tiny bit of clear liquid on my nipple. Nothing that would leave evidence on a bra. I hope this means that I might not struggle with BFing. Most of the women in my family seem to think that I won’t be able to do it because they couldn’t..they tell me “not to be surprised if I can’t” and to “expect that it won’t happen”..anytime I bring up items I’ve bought or need to get to prepare to BF they look at me like I wasted my money 😒 I want to be able to be able to give her all the nutrients I can and their comments just make me want to prove them wrong!