Just a little vent

So my husband has been gone for a month and a half for basic training. He hurt himself so he’s going to be sent home. Anyway he called his mom for a plane ticket idk why he called her I’m guessing he thought I didn’t have money. Anyway I helped pay most of his ticket. she told me what happened with him cause I haven’t spoke to him. I told her I can pick him up from the airport and she said “no no no I want to be there when he comes home we’ll drive” I am so annoyed with her. I feel like my son and I should pick him up. What do u ladies think? I feel disrespected like I’m not his wife.