First go at IVF at 40

Victoria

I turned 40 in Sept 18, my husband is 5 years younger. We only met 9 years ago & we married 4 years ago. We started ttc Oct 2015 with no success. This time last year we were referred for

IVF

, I’m in the U.K. & the process seems to be different from some of the stuff I’ve read on here, but the sharing of others experiences has really helped me so far, so thought I’d share too.

So in September 2018 I underwent egg retrieval. I had 13 follicles, but only 4 eggs. I was disappointed initially as I’d hope for more to increase our chances of success. However, all 4 had fertilised by the following morning. 2 went on to develop to good quality blastocysts & were frozen at day 5.

I was then treated for Fibroids, which doctors were concerned could hinder any potential chance of embryo implantation. This treatment started in November & I had monthly shots, through to January this year.

I’ve had a week of scans, every couple of days, measuring my uterine lining & yesterday one of our embryos was thawed successfully & transferred. It was all a little surreal & very emotional.

We are now playing the waiting game. We have to take a pregnancy test on 24th February. That’s a week on Sunday. It’s not even been 24 hours since the procedure & yet the waiting is already torture!

Obviously we are thinking positive thoughts, trying to remain relaxed & calm & patient. We want this to work SO MUCH!!! PLEASE IMPLANT 🤞🏻

UPDATE: 24th February 2019: Taken first test & positive result. Same goes for 2nd test.

Repeated test today, 26th & still positive! 🤞🏻this continues

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COMMENT (13)

Al

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Good luck to you! The TWW feels like it’s never going to end, especially the first 2/3 days but try to relax and focus on all the other wonderful things in your life!I napped like crazy in my TWW! Phone off, curtains closed, it was awesome! Even if it’s just a 15min nap! A whole pineapple every day and drank lots of water! Found out this morning that our little embaby stuck! Good lick to you!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Vi

Victoria • Feb 15, 2019
That’s wonderful news for you 💕 Thanks for the support

K•

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My transfer was this past Saturday. We transferred two embryos. I am 35, and only produced 3 eggs. I have a low ovarian reserve. Our two littles were very high quality, though. Sending lots of prayers and good vibes your way! The wait is torturous!

Vi

Victoria • Feb 19, 2019
And to you 🤞🏻🤞🏻

An

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Good luck! I'm testing on Sunday this week. I have been so good at not testing early as don't want to be disappointed if it's a no. X

An

Angela • Feb 15, 2019
Thank you 🤞🤞

Vi

Victoria • Feb 15, 2019
Everything crossed for you on Sunday. Thanks for the support x

Al

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Yay! Good luck!! 🍀

Vi

Victoria • Feb 15, 2019
Thank you 🙏🏻

Br

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Good luck! The wait is horrible but keep yourself busy. Take a walk a couple times a day to get your blood flowing. That should help with implementation. I did a FET on January 22nd. Positive betas and waiting for my ultrasound next week.

Vi

Victoria • Feb 14, 2019
That’s great news & thanks for the advice x

🤣

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Good luck!! Lots of love and stickiness to you!

Vi

Victoria • Feb 14, 2019
Thank you so much 🙏🏻