😡😖 Married and without sex!!! 😫🤬

My husband and I have been married for over a month now and we haven’t been able to have vaginal intercourse. Why?

Because I have vaginismus — I think anyway. My symptoms seem to point that way. He can’t get inside me because my muscles tighten up around the opening without my being able to control them.

We’ve tried lotion, lots of foreplay, bathes, so so so much lube... The only time we even got close to normal intercourse was when I was a bit tipsy (which we tried on purpose). But even then, it hurt so bad that I cried.

HELP! Has anyone been through this before? If you have or even if you haven’t, what should I do?

I just want to have sex with my husband, but my lady-friend won’t let me.....