So for Christmas my boyfriend bought both of his nieces each a bed, mattress, dresser, and tv stand. (His sister and her bf just moved here and their place before was already pre-furnished) He was gonna get then Nintendo switches. But I told him no. Also, he blew $900 at the casino while on a job. Im 19 in college and he’s 18 working in oilfield. We are in no position to be spending that kind of money. We have rent, bills,etc and now the baby.Then he’s wanting to get his nieces stuff for Valentine’s Day. I feel like he’s already done a lot. Then anytime I mention things we need to get for the baby he says I’m paying for all the baby stuff. Which it’s both of our responsibility and it burns me up that he’ll spend all this money on his nieces but when it comes to his own kid he doesn’t want to spend anything? Would this bother anyone else? I brought this up to him and he said I was just mad that he didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day, which I could honestly care less about and continued to call me names. I just feel like he won’t do this stuff for his own kid after birth and stuff. He just doesn’t get what I’m trying to tell him. Would y’all be upset about this?