Having troubles with husband

Anybody else having problems reconnecting with their husbands since baby’s been born? I’m talking sexually and mentally. We didn’t have sex the last two months of my pregnancy due to me being so uncomfortable down there and still haven’t had sex yet so it’s been about 6 months😬 the baby just moved into her own room a few weeks ago so we could totally do it now but I feel so disconnected from him and go to bed before him every night because I’m just exhausted and he likes to stay up later. And even when we do go to bed together neither one of us ever makes a move and we just go to sleep. Any tips on what I can do to feel more connected to him?