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Ugh, I know how you are feeling. I had my first FET in December and it failed. Literally went into a state if depression. We had a 5 day grade AA embryo so I was so positive it would work. I had an ERA biopsy in January to see if my lining was receptive/ timing could have been wrong however it showed receptive so that Wasn’t the issue. They had trouble getting it in and had to take it out and switch catheters so fingers crossed that had something to do with it. I took two months off (one to do the biopsy) other just to give my body a rest. Waiting to get my period to start our next FET. It is all personal preference! Praying all works out for you! Sometimes time off is much needed to clear your mind.
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8dp5dt and I’m still getting negatives. Beta is on Monday but I think I’m out. We did our first FET. I was so sure it was going to work since we are male factor. I thought as long as we got a fertilized embryo in we would be good. 😭😭 our embryo looked great too. I don’t think I want to do another one right away. I think I want to wait like 6 months is that normal? I’m just so disappointed.
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My first failed too, I was so upset and sad. I was in the opposite boat and wanted to try again the next cycle and with Christmas, they were scheduled to be closed in the day of my anticipated transfer. I was crushed.I went in January positive and this one stuck!!!Our little failed one was pgs normal but my dr said it didn’t do well with the thaw process. Good luck and take the time you need. Every person is different and every situation is differnt.
De
Thank you! It’s good to know just because this one may not have worked that doesn’t mean it will never work.
Des! I am still hoping that you will get your BFP, but if not, please know that this is not the end. I didn’t take a break except to wait to be able to do the next round, but I did take a break over the summer from IUI’s. Sometimes you’ve gotta regroup and get your mind right and that is totally okay. Wishing you lots of peace and love!
De
The more I think of it the more I kind of just want to keep going.
Al
🙄husbands.. gotta love them. I had my miscarriage around Christmas time and then couldn’t do FET in Jan because the facility was all booked. For me, at first the break was nice to just grieve but then I was ready to go.
De
Thanks girl. I’m really going back and forth on if I should take a break or not. My husband is no help. He’s in denial that the sticks are negative. He’s saying we are pregnant till the dr tells us we are not 🤷🏼♀️. I know it’s not the end. I just was so hopeful this would work. We are male factor infertility so I was certain if we got a fertilized embryo it would work.
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