Are you giving your SO away by wanting a threesome or open relationship?

Li

My aunt and her bf came to town and we were having dinner and I asked them how they met and they kinda gave each other a weird look. My aunt, a super open and honest woman, said “his ex wife gifted him to me”. I was like 👀 “Really? How did that happen”. Turns out his now ex-wife called my aunt tryna hook her up with her husband because at that time she was wanting an “open relationship”. My aunt worked with the wife and knew her pretty well; she’d seen her husband but didn’t know him that well until the wife started pushing him on her. I cut the convo short although I was curious af, because my 14 yr old daughter was there and her mouth was dropped wide open and she was looking bug-eyed. I can’t wait to hear the rest of the story. Anyway this got me to thinking about my aunts initial statement that his ex wife gifted him to her. If you’re in a good relationship, why would you want to bring another woman into the bedroom to your husband? Are you just asking for trouble.....giving your husband to another woman? I mean, they’re divorced now and he’s with the woman his wife (now ex wife) was trying to hook him up with. They’ve been together for years now (6 or 7).