When will this happen 😩?!?!?

I’m 39 weeks and 5 days and I’ve been 4 cm for 2.5 weeks. 90% effaced. Lost mucus plug weeks ago but it grew back. Slight cramping, slight increase in discharge. 4th pregnancy and 3 baby full term. Why the hell am I not feeling anything but slight pressure. Next appt is Monday and I’ll be 40 weeks and 1 day.