My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years now and our sex used to be incredible. We used to have sex like twice a day, 3-4 times in a week. I never complained about anything and enjoyed every single bit of it. However its been a year now that our sex life has changed. From having sex 3-4 times a week it has now changed to having sex once every two weeks and even then I’m the only one who puts effort into it. At some point I felt like maybe something is not right with me and that I’m no longer attractive.

I have sat him down and spoke to him about the issue and he stated that sex wasn’t his priority and that his mindset is not about sex but the future.

It seems like that our sex life will continue like that for a few years.

Can anyone provide me with some advice on how to deal with this please and also how I can possibly control my sex drive when I’m around him.

I would really appreciate your advice x