⚠️Warning! This might be upsetting to others! Racial slurs and abuse.⚠️

My ex and I coparent are almost 3 year old twin boys. During a pick up/drop off we started discussing their birthday party and within minutes things got BAD!

My ex spit on me! Called me a ni**er cu*t (I’m half black) and then told my one son to push me and call me a bitch and my son did. I am so heartbroken. I know my son doesn’t know any better but I’m still so heartbroken that he’s teaching my sons such disrespect!

I’m so upset with myself for making such a bad decision to have children with someone like him. I was just so young and stupid.

My question is should I do pick ups/drop off only at daycare and police station? Should this be my last straw? Should I cancel my kids birthday party on 3/10 or just uninvite him and his family? I put down the deposit for the party.