Date rescheduled

Last night I was supposed to go on a date with this guy I’ve been talking to. He rescheduled like an hour before it was supposed to happen, said that he was having anxiety cuz his grandpa is getting close to passing away. Which I 100% understand but of course I was a little bummed cuz I was looking forward to meeting him. So I wrote him like a little tiny paragraph this morning that was sweet letting him know he can talk to me and that if he wants to reschedule we can but only if he wants. And then he said now he needs time to thing cuz everything is piling up on him. I guess idk what to do. I’m kinda nervous cuz we haven’t met yet and I want to be there for him, we were gonna go to steak and shake and then go to his place to chill (he lives with his parents and grandparents) and that had me thinking, if he’s gonna pass away soon then (his grandpa) I shouldn’t go over there next weekend (when he wanted to reschedule) cuz that’d be inappropriate when they just had a loss, if he passes soon which they are pretty sure he will. Not to mention I didn’t know what to say when he asked to reschedule cuz it just stumped me in the moment. He had told me a few days ago that his grandpas passing wouldn’t affect him much as they weren’t close but I can see that it is. I just wanna be there for him and usually I’m good at that. But I’m stumped ;-; I feel bad for him but I’m not sure how exactly he’s feeling and he said he’s good at listening but what if he isn’t good at talking. And also I don’t want to pry cuz we just met on the 5th. this was supposed to be our first date also a valentine’s date so idk. We have gotten kinda close and I have developed feelings for him so I care about him. Ugh idk

Update : I asked him how he’s feeling and he said he’s alright just stress and stuff. He said his family is over and his mom is saying he can’t leave I think that’s what he meant, and that his sister is being bitchy to them for no reason (his words) so like I said I don’t think he’s uninterested I just want to help him with this