In my relationship of 5years. Been friends for 12years. But anyway we had agreement of going to work party's that we bring eachother, as a couple. Were both in our 30s. In my eyes its always couple parties now on.

Well last month my boyfriend said "chris is having a mans poker night, bla bla". I was totally cool with it. I dropped him off at the friends house. Even went in and said hi. All men. Later around 3am. He comes home. Ask how it went and he said fine. Next morning he told me some of guys brought there wifes or girlfriends. I was thinking ok, well i wish i knew i could of gone i guess.

The next weekend was a party, of course i couldn't go because i had my son that weekend. (have joint custody with ex). I kind of made a stink about it because we made agreement about being a couple and going together. I said whatever to it i trust him anyway. He got to drunk and at 6am he comes rolling in house. Talking how much fun it was bla bla.

The next weekend i finally get to go and i enjoyed myself but everyone just seem awkward around me. Didnt really care. One i was enjoying myself with my man. Also i didnt know everyone that well, im kind of shy.

This morning my boufriend gets a call " yo, come shoot some hoops with us". So my boyfriend tells me all the guys going shoot hoops. Im cool with it. When he gets back he tells me eveyones wife and girl were there. I was kind shocked. He said "i didnt know they were coming, i would ask you to come." made me little annoyed.

Heres what im thinking why wouldnt they say "grab your girl come meets us, or invite us as a couple. It hurts my feelings and my boyfriend doesnt see it that way. He thinks they forgot to invite or something else is going on. What you ladies think, am i tripping over this?