You all need to tell me your input and tell me the truth!!!! I’m trying not to take this personally on so many levels!!

So yesterday my bf and I were waking up after a wonderful night out! And we had a little too much to drink so we had all our drunk friends stay at our place so they don’t drive !

So he goes to text one of them that had left earlier to see if he made it home ok!

I SEE HIS EX TEXTED HIM!

**not let me back track and give you some history fast**

About Two weeks ago this girl called him drunk and confessed her feelings and love she still had for him , and he was out with his friends drinking but he picked up the phone call and also reciprocated !

I confronted him about it because I caught him when I had a gut feeling and looked through his phone! He told me (his side of the story and what he wanted me to know) and I’ve been fed up with her for a while but I respected his heart and wanted him to get closure with her and their break up he needed that. So I let them “be friends” I know I know exactly what that means and it was dumb on my part ! But basically I asked him if she were to move to VA tomorrow .. from Texas .. would he leave me for her .... He said : “yes .. I would leave you for her”

So me being me ! I didn’t get mad or anything because he was being real With me ! So I told him he could have her like I’m not upset ! He told me he wanted to be with me and it took everything to convince myself to be with someone that loves somebody else ...

I told him I could only be with him if he cut her out of his life and out of our relationship for good! I told him to have one last phone conversation or FaceTime! Whatever it may be to say whatever he wanted to say, it could have been I will always love you or anything but i didn’t wanna know what was said and that needed to be the last conversation ever .. So he blocked her on social media and blocked her number.. and we have moved on and actually grown since then..

Ok back to the story!

SO I SEEN HER TEXT HIM AND I SAY :

“Did that just say Rebecca”

Alex- “yea”

“WTF Alex what did she want”

Alex-“idk I didn’t read it”

“I thought you had he blocked”

Alex- “I do look! I didn’t know I had that number in my phone!”

He proceeds to show me he still had her number blocked ,

And I am livid at this point!

How many numbers does this bitch have like the fuck !

Me-“let me text her back.. I won’t be rude I just need to say somethings”

Alex-“no”

Me-“the fuck you mean no”

Alex-“she will just brush it off because it’s coming from you and not me! It won’t resonate with her, let me just tell her to leave me alone”

Me-“I told you the last time to say your goodbyes and I never wanted to hear or see that girl ever again ! I need for you to be just as done with her as I am.. I told you I was done if I saw her again and I’m done!!!!”

I needed to go to work so I had to leave but after driving 20 mins to get to work I was thinking .. THERE IS NO WAY HE COULD HAVE MOT KNOWN THAT NUMBER WAS IN HIS PHONE BECAUSE THERE WAS A CONTACT PHOTO ON THAT NUMBER !!! So not only did you lie to me .. but you thought I was dumb obviously and I’m starting to think that you never had that final conversation by the messages I’m about to show you guys ..

So I confronted him on why I think he was lying because of the contact photo and he swears up and down that he didn’t know .. I don’t know if I believe that shit ! I could believe if he forgot he had her other number in his phone but I don’t believe he didn’t know it was there. So I can’t blame him for this one because of that so I told him that he needed to change his number by the end of the day if he wanted to continue on with this relation because I’m past the point of done.

I come home after work and I’m still pissed but I’m tryna move on. From it but I can’t so I asked him what he responded to her .. he told me again his version of the story and my gut tells me there is something off about it .. I told myself I wasn’t going to look at his phone for my sanity but this morning his alarm is going off .. and it’s been going off for legit four mins ... I’m like god you really are looking out for me aren’t you because why hasn’t this guy woken up !!! So I get up and I turn it off ... I also looked into the messages and I see the images attached ..

IM TAKING THIS SHIT PERSONAL BECAUSE NOT ONLY DID HE MAKE IT SEEM AS IF IM MAKING HIM CHANGE HIS NUMBER IT COMES OFF TO ME AS IF HE DOESNT REALLY WANT TO CHANGE IT WHICH IN A SENSE MEANS HE DOESNT WANT TO BE DONE WITH HER!!!

So yeah the last three messages got under my nerves but I can say with a clear head I am not insecure with this girl lol it’s just too much has happened for me to be ok with them Having a relationship when they both have clearly shown they aren’t adult enough to keep the relationship at a friend status without it effecting our current relationship!

My reason for asking him to change his number is this and you honestly can tell me the truth:

I want him to change his number because as long as he has a way to contact her or he has a way to contact him they will always have that connection to each other and he has proven to me that his love that he has for her is strong but he doesn’t want to peruse what’s in the past because even if they got back together it would still be a toxic relationship.. I need for him to move on from her and his past if he wants to build our foundation and move on with our future.

If he gets a new number and she is still hitti

ng him up.. then I know it’s him and he doesn’t truly wanna be rid of her .. because how would she get your number if you didn’t give it to her ! ?

PLEASE LOOK AT THE MESSAGES AND LET ME KNOW YOU INPUT AND TELL ME AM I OVERREACTING ! Am I being extra with asking him to change his number ect.