Losing my baby

Desiree
I've never experienced anything like this. I found out today that my baby is no longer living. Went to the ER for mild cramps, no bleeding. They ran test and saw I had a UTI, went to check for my baby's heart beat and nothing. Sonogram and there is no movements or a heart beat. This is awful. 
My baby was due feb,9th. It would of been 17 weeks. I have to wait till Tuesday to see my doctor to see what to do next. Set up delivering it this week?? That is what they told me at the ER. THIS is so devastating, I'm laying in bed and all I can think of is my baby is dead and it's still inside my body. What a nightmare.