Marriage...

My boyfriend and i are constantly arguing about getting married. He wants to do it once he’s done with grad school and i don’t want to be married at all. I personally think it’s a waste of money and I’m not sure what the point of the government getting involved with our relationship is. I know my dad would never have the money to help pay for it and i have way too big of a family so i know it would be expensive. I also never told him that it would kill me not having my mom there since she passed away in ‘07. I don’t know what i should do.