So this just happened after being with the same man for 7 years (dated for 1year, married for 4, separated the last 2 years). I've been going out on dates with no rush for a divorce. He has moved on and living with someone. And low and be hold I meet my soulmate last month on the 9th, went out on a couple of dates and than he leaves for 14 days to go to work (oilfield man). He got back home on Jan 30th and yesterday I have a BFP😯. I'll be 36 this year and he is 43. My last child is 12 years old (first marriage).I prayed for this moment for years with no success, I had a miscarriage in 2014, car accident that rotated my pelvis in the same year and in late 2015 found out that my tubes were both block (doctors still dont know why) now this miracle baby with no planning. We are very happy just still in shock. And yes my divorce is almost finalized now with the help of God and this wonderful man.